I’m desperate for kids but my husband won't give me a baby | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: IF I hear that another woman is pregnant, I cry.

I’m desperate for a baby but my husband makes excuses to put off having kids.

I wonder if I should leave him and find someone else before it’s too late.

I am 33 and he is 35. We have been married for seven years, and together for ten.

Our life is great, apart from this one issue, and I love him.

Since I turned 30, having a baby is all I can think about.

My husband just isn’t interested. He says, “We have such a nice life, why spoil it?”

Part of me thinks I should get pregnant “accidentally on purpose”, so he doesn’t have an option. But I know that would be wrong and foolish.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your biological clock is deafening you, but he can’t hear it.

Do not trick him into pregnancy or you will destroy your relationship.

Have a calm, frank conversation. Make it clear this is breaking you apart and pushing you away.

Ask him whether he honestly wants kids.

If he does, agree to a deadline to start trying.

If not, then you may have some tough decisions to make. But at least you’ll know where you stand.

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